Next Step–Create Work!

  • Job with benefits for Nathan . . . check!
  • House found that will allow the dogs . . . CHECK! (We finally got word yesterday, can I hear a Hallelujah!)

  • Truck rented . . . check.
  • House packed . . . um, check minus. We still have a few things to go.
  • Route planned, including fun meetings with friends from the past and friends from the blog . . . CHECK!! (Look for a blog post later this week after I meet the fabulous Kathy from Reinventing the Event Horizon)
  • Find job for Lisa so that we can actually afford this move . . . X not so much.

So now my search for work in the area begins in earnest (not that I haven’t already started, I have). Which of course makes me reflect on what I really want for a career or a job. What do I want to be when I grow up?

Everyone keeps telling me that I should be able to find work easily, but we all know that in some ways those are empty words nowadays. There are many talented people out of work. There are many greedy people controlling what jobs are available. I’ve written elsewhere about the additional challenges I seem to face as I try to find employment. My education and the diversity of work that I have done makes me both marketable and unmarketable. The fact that I am a woman over 40 adds to the challenges. The fact that I have a child adds to the challenges. All in all, I have lots to offer, but it isn’t that easy.

But, I do not intend to bitch and moan about the above reality today. If you note my title, I am thinking about how to “Create Work!” On September 6th, once I figure out the car situation (we really need two cars for this move, but can’t afford a second car at the moment) I have an appointment at the Career Development Office at my Alma mater to help me on my job search. That means, of course, that she is going to ask me difficult questions. Questions like:

  • What kind of job do you want?
  • What do you look for in an employer?
  • What are your strengths?
  • Etc.

If I could create my dream job, what would it be? I still don’t know the answer, but I do know a few things:

  • I love jobs with flexibility, both in time and approach.
  • I like to have variety in my working, where I take on short-term projects (like directing shows or drama workshops), fulfill them completely, and move onto the next.
  • I like meeting with, working with, and mentoring people who are passionate about what they do.
  • I would love to be able to make a living with words, whether it is writing words, putting words on a stage, or speaking words in front of other. “Words, words, words.” They are my fuel and my passion.
  • I want to be available for my daughter as she grows, but I don’t want to be a stay at home mom. That means I would like flexibility of hours.
  • I am good at organizing, managing, coordinating, and solving problems on my feet. I like those challenges as well.
  • I am passionate about the arts, education, giving a voice to all and following your bliss (although I’m still working on that one)

I probably could keep brainstorming this list, but the reality is that I don’t know what job fits those realities of who I am. So, perhaps it is time for me to Create the Work that I want to do.

The question then remains, where do I begin? Perhaps I have already begun.

21 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. k8edid
    Aug 22, 2011 @ 09:11:45

    Whew….and Hallelujah!

    Reply

  2. Barbarann Ayars
    Aug 22, 2011 @ 09:22:08

    I’ts a great start. spend the day enjoying the biggest thing gone from your “move” list: you get to live with your dogs. That matters in a new environment.

    Reading your hit list of job wants, it boils down to a simple desire: Give me a challenge with words in some format with passionate people and watch me go! All else is extemporaneous and manageable.

    Being forty is a plus. Read: shows up on time, does the job before her nails….doesn’t know she has nails…..understands the job and cares about it, is dependable, responsible, and best of all, not twenty! You might not know yet what you want to do. But you’ll know it when it presents itself. Your instincts are good. Trust ‘em. You don’t know yet because it’s not time to know. This cake is still baking! I know a job is of pressing importance, but it’s further down on the list. Don’t jump the list. Get moved and organized, looking for a job with, maybe, your left hand. Oh yeah, and HALLEULJAH!

    Reply

    • Lisa (Woman Wielding Words)
      Aug 22, 2011 @ 09:27:44

      Actually, the next stumbling block seems to be getting Sarah registered for school. She cannot attend without proof of residency, and that means two pieces of proof. The lease is not enough. No, I must provide a driver’s license or a voter registration card or a bill proving we live there. Um, we haven’t even signed the lease yet. Grrrrrr.

      Reply

  3. LittleMissVix
    Aug 22, 2011 @ 09:32:57

    Some great news, things are falling into place, maybe this will be the home you’ve been looking for and the place where you discover that elusive dream career. Finger’s crossed!

    Reply

  4. countingducks
    Aug 22, 2011 @ 10:00:12

    Things seem to be moving along well for you. Good luck with the school thing. Moving can be a beauracratic nightmare I know. I’ve no useful advice of course but the very best of luck woth everything

    Reply

  5. Julia Skinner
    Aug 22, 2011 @ 10:28:30

    You certainly have started and what a positive start it is. Great list! Take that with you because it is you at the moment. Well done on having so many things ticked on that list too!

    Reply

  6. nrhatch
    Aug 22, 2011 @ 10:46:50

    You are doing what many people do ~ instead of celebrating each desire as it is fulfilled . . . you quickly cross that desire off the list and start looking down the road at other desires. That’s a recipe for feeling UNFULFILLED.

    If you want to feel less overwhelmed, take a moment to savor THIS milestone. Smile.
    You have a place to live.
    YAY!
    That’s great, wonderful, terrific.
    Tomorrow is soon enough to start toting around your wheelbarrow of unfulfilled desires again.

    So what if you can’t enroll Sarah in school NOW?
    You’re not even there yet. :D

    Enjoy THIS moment, Lisa.
    You can only live happily ever after on a moment by moment basis.

    Reply

    • Lisa (Woman Wielding Words)
      Aug 22, 2011 @ 10:52:21

      I hear what you are saying Nancy, and I really am not rushing ahead. The Sarah school thing is just practicality, as school starts the day after we get there and she will do better if she can start with everyone else. I e-mailed just to give them a heads up and find out what we would need, only to discover the kind of ridiculous roadblock of needing two forms of proof of residence. Does this mean homeless children can’t go to school?

      But, it will all fall into place, I’m sure.

      Reply

  7. TheIdiotSpeaketh
    Aug 22, 2011 @ 11:31:37

    One small step at a time! Hallalelujah! :)

    Reply

  8. CMSmith
    Aug 22, 2011 @ 12:18:41

    Hooray about the house and the dogs! You’ve come a long way in a short time.

    You’ll get there.

    Reply

  9. Tori Nelson
    Aug 22, 2011 @ 13:05:58

    Progress! Progress! It sounds like you already have a great hold on what it is you want from a job. The rest will fall into place!

    Reply

  10. youngamericanwisdom.com
    Aug 22, 2011 @ 16:56:33

    “Just put one foot in front of the other and soon you’ll be….” :)

    Reply

  11. An Embarrassment of Freedom
    Aug 22, 2011 @ 17:46:00

    Regarding work…have you considered leading an arts program for special needs, socially disadvantaged or culturally diverse students in partnership perhaps with a local theatre or school board…promote yourself and ask for space/funding etc….? * children and adults

    Reply

  12. Arlee Bird
    Aug 31, 2011 @ 18:02:10

    You’ve described my dream job! I’m sick of no income, but I hate the thought of getting stuck in the quagmire of an unfilling job of drudgery.

    Lee
    Tossing It Out

    Reply

Share your thoughts with Lisa

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s

Follow

Get every new post delivered to your Inbox.

Join 863 other followers

%d bloggers like this: