A”maze”ing Words and Surprising Discoveries

Meandering Through a Muddle of Words

We spent yesterday wandering through a corn maze made in the shape of Noah Webster.

The challenge (in order to win a free small pumpkin) was to make your way through the maze finding the words in a giant word search, letter by letter.  Amazingly enough we managed to make it through without having to call 911. ;)

Perhaps the fact that you are given a flag with a number before you enter the maze makes people less stupid. Then again, the competition became intense, which was a little strange, since there really wasn't any competition.

In the center of the maze (aka Webster’s face) was a second game where you had to select the correct definition of some words, and they weren’t easy.

This was the perfect maze for Sarah who has recently taken to looking up words in the dictionary and writing down their definitions, FOR FUN. Yes, friends, she is indeed my daughter, as I would underline (in light pencil) any words I didn’t know in any books I read and make a list throughout my childhood.  The maze combined her new love of words with her never-ending search for adventure.

While the sun stayed behind the clouds for most of the day, it was still a nice day to be in the maze, compared to our adventure in a maze last year in Kansas, which included heat, bugs and two pre-teenage girls who decided that they needed to run through the maze. Of course, this late in the season the maze is a little worse for wear, with brown stalks and downed stalks, as well as evidence of Hurricane Irene who took her own journey through the maze.

As we wandered through the maze, my mind rambled from nothing to word meanings to the meaning of life with lots of side trips along the way.

Disorientation

As we journeyed through the maze, I learned that I have absolutely no sense of direction, while Sarah and Nathan seem to have an innate instinct for making their way through mazes.

The amazing maze explorers know the way.

Another clue!

"Let's see. Where to next? Follow me."

Of course, upon this realization, since I always want to improve, I tried to hone my instincts and improve my navigation ability. My instincts started to kick in, and I eventually figured out a pattern that I could follow. However this inevitably led to the . . .

Brabble of the Babes

You see, Sarah and I tend to be a lot alike. This means that, on occasion, we get on each other’s nerves. Perhaps due to my lack of sleep over the past several days while I was dealing with my personal  emotional roller coaster, or the fact that within 5 minutes of entering the maze Sarah nearly brained me with the flag, my ability to communicate with my daughter seemed to disintegrate rapidly as we made our way from letter to letter. What sounded to me like, “please don’t walk with the flag pointing forward” or “don’t swing the flag around, you might hit someone” must have sounded to her like “STOP TRYING TO KILL EVERYONE WITH THAT FLAG!!”

Sometimes, despite my love of words, I have problems communicating.

As my legs started getting more and more tired, my words became sharper, until I reverted to the inner 6-year-old that often makes appearances when the tension between us gets stronger and decided to stop talking.

Words only work if you use them.

I'm not sure which of us needed a time out more.

Revelations of the Camera Obscura

Eventually we worked through our issues (aka, I stopped talking and we continued on) and found all the letters and words. We exited the maze in glory to select our pumpkin. Then, of course, Sarah wanted to explore a little. We wandered over to the petting zoo, where adorable goats and other animals demanded food which we did not provide. Then Sarah saw an odd structure that looked like a little play house. In reality, however, it was a Camera Obscura and it was really cool.

Through the Camera Obscura

Camera Obscura Landscape

Camera Obscura Farm

Camera Obscura animals

Somehow, looking at the world from a different perspective made me realize that I need to change my own perspective more often, in order to find some incredible things.

So what did I learn by changing my perspective? That there may not be enough words to describe the complexity of my love for my life (even at its most confused and chaotic) and especially for my family.

Sometime words just aren’t enough.

Dancing a jig on a bail of hay, you can't say it better than this.

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28 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. critters and crayons
    Oct 24, 2011 @ 13:42:36

    Love this post and the idea of word maze!!! Your last two paragraphs and the last line are the best- :)

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  2. Sandi Ormsby
    Oct 24, 2011 @ 14:18:04

    I wish we had word mazes or any cool mazes like this. In our area, we have a simple, small, corn maze built for toddlers. I’m sad.

    Of course, my kids would probably get lost (or rather since there’s two of them, I’d be deemed lost) and we’d be calling out to each other…”Mom’s lost, again!”

    Can’t take me anywhere. :)

    Sandi
    http://www.ahhsome.wordpress.com
    Lake Forest, CA

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  3. Taochild
    Oct 24, 2011 @ 14:21:59

    Yep. Same thoughts. Different reasons lol

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  4. Barbarann Ayars
    Oct 24, 2011 @ 14:51:31

    Neat post. Makes me think of a similarity. We stand in the rocky stream of life, looking at the water, sometimes serene, sometimes treacherous. When we feel marrooned in the water, standing on a rock not knowing what to do, do this: move to another rock and see the stream from a different perspective. The maze works the same, even if we’re lost in it….my usual state….if we can just reposition ourselves we are less lost within the same corn rows. Kids, I think, have much better radar. My own sense of direction is so nil that when ice skating figure eights, I can’t complete the back side because I turn my shoulders the wrong way every single darn time and go skating off in the wrong direction. Good grief. Stay with us, darlin’.

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    • Lisa Wields Words
      Oct 24, 2011 @ 14:59:04

      For some reason I love that you can’t complete a figure eight. I think those of us who are perennially directionally challenged should embrace that as a strength–it forces us to find our way in unique directions. ;)

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  5. Barbarann Ayars
    Oct 24, 2011 @ 15:02:01

    I see that no matter what, you are able to ALWAYS make lemonade from lemons! that’s true inspiration. I live on a planet called uneekdirekshuns.

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  6. Kathryn McCullough
    Oct 24, 2011 @ 17:10:07

    That sounds like so much fun, Lisa. And how darling that Sarah has taken to looking up words in the dictionary. What a delightful child. Like mother like daughter.

    By the way, I have a bad sense of direction, as well. However, remember that the maze is meant to disorient–that’s the point–so maybe not a sure sign of your being directionally challenged in any terminal sense. Ha, ha!

    Kathy

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  7. Mrs. H.
    Oct 24, 2011 @ 18:13:16

    Love this, Lisa! Not to make this about me, but I couldn’t help but fantasize doing this sort of thing with my future girl…wondering what her interests will be, who her personality will take after…it’s fun to dream. :) (Thanks for that opportunity–sometimes I feel like I don’t take the time to sit and dream about Melanie enough.)

    I completely understand the frustration you’re talking about here. I often find myself in awe of how a simple, nonjudgemental sentence can result in an argument. My father and I are like that. I can’t speak to him about anything very serious or about something that bothers me because he doesn’t hear what I’m saying…and (to be fair) I don’t think I hear what he’s saying. He and I are exactly the same, and as a newly 30-something woman, I’ve decided to give up and give in. Anytime there’s a potential argument brewing, I snap my mouth shut. (He can’t fight with me if I don’t respond, right?) It’s worked a couple of times so far…we’ll see how it goes.

    I wonder why it can be so hard for us to communicate, even in spite of years and years of study dedicated to communication. Do you think it might be because we are so adept at language and rhetorical nuance that we have trouble communicating with people who aren’t or who haven’t had the course of study that we’ve had? I’m not suggesting that these other people are stupid by any means. My father is one of the most intelligent people I know; intimidatingly so. But he’s medically trained. I’m trained in language. Most of my peers (as well as my husband) are also trained in language. So sometimes I wonder if I’ve gotten kind of used to communicating a particular way with those people and that I sort of assume that everyone else communicates the same way (especially if I think that the other person is at least as intelligent as I am…and I think most people are at least as intelligent as I am).

    Does any of that make sense?

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    • Lisa Wields Words
      Oct 24, 2011 @ 18:48:57

      You definitely make sense. I know that I struggle to communicate with both my parents, simply because I think differently from them. My whole family is intelligent, but that doesn’t prevent us from a complete inability to understand each other, especially as our paths in life diverged.Since my life includes words and performance, forget about it. They like theater, but they don’t get it, and to them I will always be the drama queen.

      However, I believe my problem with Sarah is much more basic than that. Sarah is eight, and she’s really good at it. ;) I’m not sure when the world stops revolving completely around you and begins to allow other people in, although I’m sure Mommy is the last one to be allowed to have a life separate from her daughter. Not that I want to be separate from her, and it is exciting to watch her become this amalgamation of Nathan and I in so many ways, but sometimes it’s hard to always be Mommy, especially when she’s eight. :D

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  8. k8edid
    Oct 24, 2011 @ 18:57:21

    What a wonderful maze – and cute daughter. I always found that my ability to communicate with my boys was directly related to the amount of stress I was feeling in general…they are both sharp and quick and I had to really stay on my toes to attempt to stay just ahead of them, but my patience wasn’t always what I wished it would be. Now that they are parents, they’ve told me how patient they remember me being!!!

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  9. thepetalpusher
    Oct 24, 2011 @ 20:57:58

    What a cool maze! I should like to stroll through that one myself. And what a nice outing for a family, Lisa. Glad you didn’t have to call 911–apparently your family has a lot more “going” on! (wink, wink)

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  10. Rose
    Oct 24, 2011 @ 22:51:51

    There are so many interesting points here, but I really like what you share about your relationship with Sarah. As a grownup non-parent I’ve only experienced one side of that sort of tension. I often knew when I was being unreasonable (when I was older), but felt like I got no credit for ever identifying when my parents were being unreasonable. Conversely, I could never recognize that not everything was about me and sometimes a parent’s patience is just going to be thin. They can’t be perfect all the time either. It doesn’t matter what you say if the other person is not in the place to hear it or give the speaker the “benefit of the doubt”.

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  11. countingducks
    Oct 25, 2011 @ 05:36:50

    Never mind the words. My sense of direction is rubbish as well. I’m impressed you made it ut of there to write this Blog

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  12. aarongraham
    Oct 25, 2011 @ 09:26:23

    Oh, sounds like an AMAZING day! I love Fall activities with my family. When I lived in Minnesota we would make a yearly adventure out of Apple Orchards. Now that I live in Texas (and Apples don’t grow as plump as they do up North) we have taken to going to Pumpkin Patches. Same chorus. Different verse!

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    • Lisa Wields Words
      Oct 25, 2011 @ 09:29:40

      We did the pumpkin patch thing in Colorado (couldn’t find a nearby apple orchard) and Kansas. It’s not quite the same as apple picking though. That was our first adventure this fall, as soon as we could. I think part of our decision to move to Massachusetts was the ability to pick apples and alternate that with visits to the pumpkin patch.

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  13. jeanne
    Oct 25, 2011 @ 21:24:34

    I really want to wander through (sucessfully without calling 911) a corn maze! Thanks for sharing.

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