“You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself any direction you choose. You’re on your own. And you know what you know. And YOU are the one who’ll decide where to go…”
― Dr. Seuss, Oh, the Places You’ll Go!
I’m watching (in a repeat airing) the Tournament of Roses parade on this January 1, 2013 and thinking about the year to come, and the theme resonated with me “Oh the Places You Will Go” from Dr. Seuss.
I started out 2012 on a plane to Vienna, heading ultimately to Slovakia, on a journey to find myself and find some purpose.
I ended 2013 sitting on a beach in Waikiki, tears pouring down my face as fireworks celebrated the first year without my Dad being on this earth.
In between those two points, life happened. Not all of it good, not all of it bad, but all because of the simple fact that I am alive.
I’m not going to give a detailed account of the moments in between but rather try to sum up what I’ve learned over the past, rather challenging, year. I learned . . .
- nothing ever goes as expected, but the unexpected can bring pleasant surprises.
- nothing is ever perfect, but with hard work we can learn to embrace imperfection
- never retrace your steps
- you are never too old to dream, or to take chances because the unexpected can happen
- nothing will happen if you don’t make it happen.
- your past doesn’t have to dictate your present or your future
Tomorrow morning I will be on a plane, back to reality, back to the cold. I can’t say that this has been the most relaxing vacation in my life. Nor has it been the most joyous holiday season. However, I know that what happens next is up to me. and that I want to be able to look back on my life without regrets.
I want to learn from the wisdom of Dr. Seuss.
“Don’t cry because it’s over, smile because it happened.”
― Dr. Seuss
I may not know what the future brings. I may not have resolutions (as I don’t believe in them), but I have two feet, a brain, an imagination, a dream, and a future.
I wonder where those tools will take me.
May you all find peace and joy as your feet carry you forward to new, wonderful, unimagined places!




Jan 01, 2013 @ 14:10:17
Safe journey back home, and to a brighter coming time.
Jan 01, 2013 @ 14:11:12
Thanks, Stuart.
Jan 01, 2013 @ 15:16:12
It sounds like you ended your year with passion and catharsis. My year didn’t quite end that way, because I don’t usually do too much to memorialize holidays (it’s part of my goal of making every day a “special occasion”). I’m grateful to have been able to read your blog during 2012.
Jan 01, 2013 @ 20:49:29
I like that idea of making every day a special occasion. I’m not sure yet how cathartic it was, but one day at a time is the way I need to move.
Jan 01, 2013 @ 15:37:45
Gotta love the wisdom of Dr. Seuss! It’s been a big year for me, as well. Sorry you’re having to face the coming months without your dad,Lisa. I know what that feels like.
Sorry also to have been away from the blogosphere over the holidays. Hope I’ve not missed too many of your wonderful posts.
Hugs,
Kathy
Jan 01, 2013 @ 20:48:25
No apologies. You were doing what you needed to be doing. I didn’t do much writing . . . couldn’t find the words.
Jan 01, 2013 @ 17:12:12
God bless Dr. Seuss. I think you have everything you need for a brilliant 2013, and I’m happy I get to read along for the ride
Jan 01, 2013 @ 20:47:27
I hope so. I’m not sure what role my blog will play in the coming year, but time will tell.
Jan 01, 2013 @ 20:48:13
A bittersweet way to end the year, Lisa. And, to start a new one. Dr Seuss is always wise for all the unexpected turns of life. xo
Jan 01, 2013 @ 20:50:15
Bittersweet for sure. Dr. Seuss is the best.
Jan 02, 2013 @ 04:53:46
I hope you have a wonderful 2013!
Jan 03, 2013 @ 13:59:11
You too. I hope all your dreams come true in 2013.
Jan 02, 2013 @ 14:20:48
Good thoughts, Lisa. Safe Travels.
Jan 03, 2013 @ 13:57:25
Thanks Nancy.
Jan 03, 2013 @ 11:00:44
We should all live through Dr. Suess’s words…he was a wise man. Here’s to a better year.
Jan 03, 2013 @ 13:57:11
Amen, sister. Amen.