Celebrating Friendship

Today I celebrate #31 on my list of 45 things to celebrate about my life, by looking at the people in my life.

If the people you choose to spend time with–the friends you make along the way–reflect who you are as a person, then I can’t be too horrible. I’ve been honored to become friends with some truly amazing people throughout my lifetime, despite the protective wall I’ve put around myself because of poor friendship choices I made in the past. I guess we all learn as we go.

Anyway, a while back I started writing a series of posts trying to celebrate some of these amazing people, particularly the women, but for some reason I let that series fade into the oblivion of my blog. I’d like to refer you to those posts again:

Those posts just skim the surface of the incredible people I count among my friends. The list also includes:

  • Heidi, a talented and passionate high school English teacher in Durango, CO who I count among my best friends and miss very much. She taught me about what it means to fight through the hard times, to challenge yourself and the world around you.
  • Kristie, another talented and passionate high school English teacher. (I’d love to have Heidi and Kristie meet, they would love each other). I led you to her blog post a short time ago, and now I would like to lead you to another. Any young person would be lucky to have a teacher have as wonderful as she is. She has taught me about the power of passion and what it takes to create a life full of purpose and joy.
  • Jesse, a man who showed me that it is possible to pursue art, care passionately about the world, and do something to make a difference. You can find more about him in my posts about Slovakia and Dramatic Adventure Theatre.
  • Mary K, Jesse’s soul mate, my soul friend. She has taught me what it means to live with a full and caring heart.
  • Christen, who I met through Jesse and Mary K. She is one of those people who combine beauty (inside and out) with compassion, intelligence, talent and an amazing attitude toward life.
  • Mike. I only actually met Mike in person, once, at our farewell party when Nathan and I left Kansas.  Leaving him and his fabulous (new) wife Lily, is one of the big regrets I have about spending such a short time there. They are both talented and wonderful people who challenge me to question what I believe and think on a regular basis, in a really good way.
  • Barb, another brilliant women who has no fear about fighting passionately for what she believes in, especially when it comes to the rights of children to an education that suits their individual needs.
  • Amanda, an incredibly brilliant and talented woman who has taught me about pursuing dreams and setting goals for oneself, even when others say “No, you can’t do that.”
  • Beth. Someone who has known me for a long, long, long time. She has shown me how to stand up for family, and what it means to be a lioness of a mother.

My list could go on and on. With each name I write, I think of another. There are many now, that I count among my friends and yet I’ve never met in person. Those are the friends I’ve made through this blog. You can find stories of most of these people sprinkled throughout my blog. They are the people who’ve helped me become a better person. They are the people whose friendship makes me want to be a better person, or strive to achieve even in a small way the things I see them achieve each and every day.

So today, as part of my celebration, I celebrate them as well as all those friends whose names I missed, but whose lives have enriched my own. Thank you friends. I love you all.

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Who are the people in your life that you would like to celebrate? Who makes your life richer just because you’ve met them and count them as friends?

14 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. lisaspiral
    Mar 11, 2013 @ 14:19:23

    This may be your best accomplishment yet!


  2. Lorinda J. Taylor
    Mar 11, 2013 @ 16:13:22

    I never was a sociable person so I didn’t make a lot of lasting friendships. I could only tell you the name of one person that I knew in college (plus a few from grad school), and all of those I lost track of years ago. But there are four people I would celebrate: a soul-friend of my mother’s, whom she met in the late 1920’s and for whom I was named; a fellow rare book librarian at UT who loved cats and was one of those wonderful eccentrics everybody might hope to meet (alas, she died a few years back); and another librarian whom I worked with and who is the person who has read all my books in manuscript. The fourth is the friend to whom I dedicated “Monster Is in the Eye of the Beholder,” a CNA who helped care for my mother in her last months and with whom I have remained friends. And then I have met people since I went into social media that are becoming more than mere acquaintances. So all in all I consider myself lucky!


    • Lisa Wields Words
      Mar 11, 2013 @ 16:17:27

      It’s the quality of friendships that count, more than the quantity. In consider you lucky too. The only reason my list seems so long is that I have moved so often. I find it hard to make friends, actually. Lily and Mike are librarians, by the way.


  3. Andra Watkins
    Mar 11, 2013 @ 22:06:47

    I loooooooove this one, Lisa.


  4. nrhatch
    Mar 11, 2013 @ 23:24:11

    This list of yours is a GOOD thing . . . a recognition of how far you’ve come which may spark inspiration about the next turn in the path.


  5. nrhatch
    Mar 12, 2013 @ 09:51:07

    Lisa ~ I came upon this site because Suzicate is doing a guest post:


    I thought the Creativity Tribe might intrigue you. This page shares a video about a upcoming retreat:



  6. Kathy
    Mar 12, 2013 @ 15:43:21

    Your life is rich in friends, Lisa. Perhaps each one reflects a quality you have in yourself. Enjoyed reading your blog.


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